There are three basic skills that make up the foundation of your perception of the world around you and how that “world” perceives you… These are observe, describe, and participate. These three very simple but very necessary tools can change everything for you if you learn to use them correctly!

Recently I have had some feeling of being obligated to do certain things that I just don’t want to do!! This is very frusterating if you can relate. You know what I am talking about, the mentality that brings us to believe that sometimes we have to settle or live the life we are predetermined to live by “society”…

Well that is why I decided to show you a little snippet of my personal life that proves we each have the power to choose our life, I had this funny analogy while sitting in the sauna today. Imagine an icicle(your life) and then imagine the beginning of that icicle starting as one small drop of water. That icicle will grow and grow. That drop of water is like a choice. We can choose the life we want.



Now say you already chose your life and its just not what you had in mind, This is the beauty of the whole thing, you can break off that icicle and begin again with a fresh start! Always return to the basics if things get to overwhelming.

So back to the observe describe and participate. Do this today observe one area of your life, describe it out loud if you want (this can really bring out some true feelings) then make some choices, this is the participate part of things. Are you stuck in a rut? Are you living a life predispositioned for you? Are you truly FREE???

I have to remind myself daily to enjoy life and to keep balance in order to be more effective all the way around. So here it is plain and simple a day at the hot springs and some good old football. It is time to search deep inside, evaluate and make some serious choices today.

My little analogy of the icicle made some sense to me but I would like to hear yours, leave me some comments or thoughts and if you would like to learn more on how to manifest your life contact me and I would be happy to hear you out…