There are three basic skills that make up the foundation of your perception of the world around you and how that “world” perceives you… These are observe, describe, and participate. These three very simple but very necessary tools can change everything for you if you learn to use them correctly!
Recently I have had some feeling of being obligated to do certain things that I just don’t want to do!! This is very frusterating if you can relate. You know what I am talking about, the mentality that brings us to believe that sometimes we have to settle or live the life we are predetermined to live by “society”…
Well that is why I decided to show you a little snippet of my personal life that proves we each have the power to choose our life, I had this funny analogy while sitting in the sauna today. Imagine an icicle(your life) and then imagine the beginning of that icicle starting as one small drop of water. That icicle will grow and grow. That drop of water is like a choice. We can choose the life we want.
Now say you already chose your life and its just not what you had in mind, This is the beauty of the whole thing, you can break off that icicle and begin again with a fresh start! Always return to the basics if things get to overwhelming.
So back to the observe describe and participate. Do this today observe one area of your life, describe it out loud if you want (this can really bring out some true feelings) then make some choices, this is the participate part of things. Are you stuck in a rut? Are you living a life predispositioned for you? Are you truly FREE???
I have to remind myself daily to enjoy life and to keep balance in order to be more effective all the way around. So here it is plain and simple a day at the hot springs and some good old football. It is time to search deep inside, evaluate and make some serious choices today.
My little analogy of the icicle made some sense to me but I would like to hear yours, leave me some comments or thoughts and if you would like to learn more on how to manifest your life contact me and I would be happy to hear you out…
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What Does Football And Hot Springs Have To Do With Anything??
January 17th, 2010Take Action To Change Your Life
September 20th, 2009It is uncanny just how easy it is to WASTE time doing things you don’t need to be doing!
When your thoughts are in the future and not in the NOW, you will loose focus on what really matters. This brings you into a fantasy mindset that is a huge distraction.
Dreaming is good, like having goals but there must be a medium or a distinction between dreams and actual reality. You know what I am talking about here ( comparing yourself to others, wishing for more $$, or a better life, fear of failure, etc.)
I have made this short video on some more thoughts and FACTS on this topic…
I have found that you don’t even have to live the life that society has trained you to believe you have to live. Especially here in the U.S. we are caught up in the mentality that you are predetermined to succeed or fail depending on traditional means IE. schooling, family background, class, race, etc…
Through a change in mindset you will begin to make the choices that lead you down a productive and positive path instead of a path that leads you to disappointment every time. Anyone has the same opportunity to create long lasting success and a life of abundance!
I am a firm believer that in order to find true freedom and enlightenment you have to take chances and risks as well as making the journey within to find you purpose in life!
Once you have found this place of peace and tranquility through some self awareness and personal discovery you are well onto your way to living the life you deserve. Life is relatively short and some never have the courage to take the steps to find a life worth living…
The solution is actually quite simple but does require a “leap of faith” and a belief that you are in control of your own destiny…
Acceptance Of Reality As it Is Requires An Act Of CHOICE…
May 31st, 2009Acceptance of reality as it is requires an act of choice. Like a fork in the road you have a choice in everything. Choose to accept reality as it is or choose to reject reality it is up to you.
The internal battle is to make the commitment to accept!
The commitment is the first step on the path to freedom and acceptance of the internal battle to commit.
only YOU can turn your mind toward the path of acceptance, you may have to repeat this over and over and over again. The choice is yours to shift your thinking and choose to accept reality for what it is!
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